"There is no African, myself included, who does not appreciate the help of the wider world, but we do question whether aid is genuine or given in the spirit of affirming one’s cultural superiority. My mood is dampened every time I attend a benefit whose host runs through a litany of African disasters before presenting a (usually) wealthy, white person, who often proceeds to list the things he or she has done for the poor, starving Africans. Every time a well-meaning college student speaks of villagers dancing because they were so grateful for her help, I cringe. Every time a Hollywood director shoots a film about Africa that features a Western protagonist, I shake my head — because Africans, real people though we may be, are used as props in the West’s fantasy of itself. And not only do such depictions tend to ignore the West’s prominent role in creating many of the unfortunate situations on the continent, they also ignore the incredible work Africans have done and continue to do to fix those problems."

colonizingthemoon:

getoffmybloghoe:

dont give me responsibilities when theres a computer near by 

We were supposed to be working on this marketing assignment on computers the other day in school but instead of doing that I went to the red robin menu and just started looking at food

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fitoraemusic:

Lana Del Rey // Queen of Disaster

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we are patient with babies, accept their mistakes and giggle and photograph their inevitable mistakes. human nature seems to be to gently nudge them in the right direction, while hopefully still reassuring them that they still have growing to do so whatever they do in this period is fine. why do we not do that for ourselves when we grow past the age of fifteen or sixteen or whatever the age is? we’re suddenly subdued into a world of being “held accountable for your actions”, and becoming characterized by little errors we are still inevitably going to make, and that is where I think a lot of problems stem from. a harsh dose of stoicism when all you’ve learned in life thus far has been reassurance.